Magnetizing Love with Feng Shui
by Suzee Miller
Feng Shui Master

You might be asking yourself: "why do I need Feng Shui to improve my personal relationship(s)?" The answer is simple ... Feng Shui mirrors reality. Our living environment is either a metaphor of positive or negative energy. High energy attracts optimistic, compassionate, loving people, while low energy environments attract negative, self absorbed, and/or out of balance people. With focused attention, using Feng Shui symbols, colors and objects (placement), we can change our environment and attract good quality people and relationships into our lives.

In simple terms, Feng Shui is the art of mindfulness. When we consciously organize and decorate space using Feng Shui principles based on the Ba-gua "energy" blueprint, our environment acts like a magnet to attract our highest intention. So, if it's love that you are seeking, your space must exude love…sensuality, sexuality and sacredness. It should also reflect grace, harmony and beauty to attract a high energy (balanced) partner.

A very important aspect in Feng Shui is a term called "missing corners." A missing corner is a section (gua area) that is missing from the Ba-gua. If the partnership/marriage gua area of your land, house or bedroom is missing, then the likelihood exists that a partner is also missing in your life. Or, you and your partner are experiencing isolation, loneliness, separation (sometimes divorce) and/or conflict and struggle in your relationship. If, for example, there is a missing career section, a U-shaped house, typically we find people that are retired living in properties like this or people that are struggling or working overtime in their careers, because the missing section of the land, house and/or room has not been remedied.

To remedy a missing corner we can square off the absent horizontal and vertical lines by using landscape, objects, and/or symbols to enclose it. When this is not possible to achieve, we can set the intention that the absent section does not affect our lives, negatively. This takes skill, focused intention and trust in a positive outcome. Please don't panic and jump out the window if you live in a high rise; the human psyche is powerful and, in my opinion, can hurdle the worst Feng Shui!

Whether you are single and seeking, or partnered and married here are a few thing you can do to attract a balanced and healthy love relationship, or to improve the one you are already in. For best results focus your attention on your master bedroom first.

The following Feng Shui tips support a healthy, beautiful and balanced union:

  • Pairs of things: two hearts, two candles, a decanter with two glasses, and/or a vase with two flowers

  • Two night stands and two lamps for equality

  • Remove clutter to allow intimacy room to bloom

  • Add a fresh coat of paint to remove old, stuck and/or angry energy

  • Play soft, romantic music instead of TV

  • Sleep on 300 plus thread count linen and enjoy plush new towels

  • Buy a beautiful new duvet or bed spread with even number pillows

  • Hang His and Her bathrobes (Terry or silk)

  • Add a pretty basket filled with oils, bubble bath, and massage lotions

  • Spray Lavender, Vanilla and/or Cinnamon daily to freshen your environment

  • Read poetry to each other (or to yourself until your mate appears)

  • Sensual and romantic artwork should be part of your bedroom décor

  • Sweeten your relationship with candy kisses in the "Marriage and Partnership" gua area of your room

  • Add a romantic photo of you and your partner (or a picture of your dream mate)

  • Balance your bedroom with equal elements of Fire, Earth, Metal, Water and Wood

  • Honor your best sleep and health directions

  • Set the Intention for peace, passion and romance

    Avoid having the following in your bedroom:

  • A computer, TV or office

  • Photos of children

  • Single women artwork

  • Sentimental objects from past loves

  • Clutter and dirty clothes

  • A kitty litter box

  • Old or broken furniture

  • Religious Icons

  • Anger and un-forgiveness Feng Shui Master Suzee Miller, owner of Feng Shui Paradigms, has been active in Business and Real Estate for the past 25 years. As a successful Entrepreneur, Ms. Miller's accomplishments have been published in Who's Who In Business in California, and Who's Who of Women in Real Estate in the United States. She is a graduate of both the American Feng Shui Institute and the Lotus Institute of Feng Shui and Grand Master Yap Cheng Hai's Feng Shui Center of Excellence in Malaysia. She is currently continuing studies with Sang (a renowned Chinese Master of the Lo Pan Compass) and Yap (Grand Master of East-West studies). For a one-on-one consultation, you can contact Suzee Miller at chi@FengShuiParadigms.com, call 800.499.7844 or visit her on the web at www.FengShuiPlaza.com


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