
This Important Message could change your life!
Do you remember a time when a special synchronicity happened, maybe a special someone entered your life or in a magical moment of inspiration you felt more alive than you ever thought possible? You had a blissful sense that your problems were over? Your Real Life had finally begun? That "happily ever after" was a very real possibility? You sensed that you were finally on the golden road to the good life?
I did. An awakening experience in 1988 left me engulfed in a glowing radiance beyond comprehension. Better than drugs and yes, seriously, better than sex. I KNEW I had changed forever. Life was one magical moment after another. Synchronicities galore! After years of strife and struggle, FINALLY things were coming together! And then my rosy world collapsed. Just weeks before the birth of my daughter, I arrived at work to find the lights off and doors locked. Bankrupt! Suddenly, a job I enjoyed and depended on gone forever. To pour salt in the wound, I then discovered that the company health insurance I'd diligently paid premiums on&nb sp;from evey paycheck had been cancelled months before. Big bucks down a greedy black hole. Then bill collectors started hounding me. Relationship difficulties intensified. I was devastated!
I got angry. Then depressed. I even doubted my sanity. And somehow, through all that jumble of shock and disappointment, I got determined. Very, very determined. I had always wondered: Everyone else has such an easy, happy time of it. Why does it have to be so hard for me?! Why couldn't the good times last?! What was so wrong with me that I was stuck trying to claw my way out of one rut after another?! Somewhere deep within me, I knew then and know now -- it doesn't have to be that way!!!
I wanted, NEEDED answers. Real answers. I needed some way to make sense of it all. I journaled. I meditated. I absorbed lots self-help, new age, spiritual books, tapes, and videos. It was so inspiring. It all sounded so simple. That help was good as far as it went. But I still felt something missing. Something vitally important. Trying to stay positive all the time was like trying to stand in a canoe during a hurricane. Hey, good try, but no sense faulting yourself for failing the impossible.
It wasn't all bad. I did have a couple of good spiritual friends. Knowledgeable and sincere, their support helped me tremendously! But some things didn't make sense to them either. And, between you and me, I was dealing with some things that just felt too weird to discuss with anyone at the time -- even them! Beneath all that, I couldn't help wondering: If I'm a "child of Source" and "Source is Love," then why are the sweet moments so fleeting and far between and the hard times apparently the "default-mode" no matter how hard I try? If the wise ones of the ages were right, shouldn't it be the other way around?!
Maybe it was the urgency. Maybe it was a sincere desire. Maybe I just got sick and tired of being sick and tired. But eventually Life responded in a most unconventional way. To make a long story short, I opened to channel, connecting with a growing collective of wise, loving Beings. They not only seemed to understand exactly what I was experiencing, but they answered questions in ways that made sense to me. More importantly, they helped me make sense of myself! They were patient with me - even when I was not. Consistently offering insightful perspectives, they directed my attention to that which truly served my evolution -- in the moment and long-term. They even shared things I didn't know I needed to know, but which later turned out to be serendipity itself. Or it seemed so to me.
These are confusing, uncertain times. Life can be even more intense. It's like the foundational fabric of reality is fluctuating. And I see people struggling with familiar challenges, looking just as earnestly for answers in their quest for transformation and awakening. I get it. I have the joy and privilege of serving some of them. The light in their eyes and vibrance of their auras after a guided realization really makes my day. Later, when they announce that life actually is better, that they don't even notice things that really used to bug them, that they're manifesting new, happier experiences in their lives, my heart smiles with them. But I know many more are also hungry for something special. And by golly, they deserve it!
My question is: What's holding you back? Sure, things are going great in some ways. But is where you are really good enough to forsake where you could be? Maybe I was lucky. As most children do, I sensed my connection with others at an early age. At age two, just beginning to venture toward independence, I guess I said "NO" one too many times. In a rage, my primary caretaker shook me so long and hard my head snapped like a rag doll. I just couldn't hold my neck stiff enough to prevent it. I thought I was going to die. My neck still sometimes reminds me of that. But despite the trauma, some part of me kept the knowing safely tucked away that I am connected to everyone and everything thing in my life. While on the surface that event may have temporarily caught me in a state of false dependence, on a deeper level it also prevented me from getting permanently locked into a state of isolation masquerading as independence. And for that I am very grateful.
I see people today wanting change, seeking solutions, determined to find the answers within themselves. Now I'll be the first to admit that the independence minded, "I'll do it myelf!" attitude is a very good thing! However, I also know firsthand how easy it can be to get lost in the "maze of maybe's." Maybe you know what I mean. While seeking solutions, you see something that looks right and think, "maybe that's the problem" or "maybe I should try this." But you can't be sure. I don't know how much time I lost trying to resolve some troubling issue, sure I was on track, only to discover that not only was I out in left field, I was in the wrong ball park! When finally guided to look in right direction and see the actual issue from the appropriate perspective, the solution was instantly obvious! Vibrant change happened naturally and easily. I hope I never again underestimate ego's ability to rationalize the irrational.
You see, the impediment lies not with the desire to get our own answers but with our definition of "self." Well, other influences can interfere too. But what's important here is that our consciousness is spherical, not linear. And even more important, your "self" is NOT limited to the space between your ears, or even just within your body and aura. The fact is, your "self" is omnidimentionally infinite.
Even if we get intuitive insight, do we always take it seriously? Often only in retrospect. Besides, who's mind is quiet enough to always hear that "still, small voice" of inspiration? Mine isn't. I accept this. And Soul understands that "I'm not 'there' yet" and cooperates. So insights, answers, real Soul-level wisdom can come externally in ways our hearts and minds can readily recognize and accept. But we have to be open to those options. I used to proudly and somewhat defiantly declare, "I'll do it myself!" Ah, if only I had understood then what I realize now. I was trying to quench chronic thirst with a thimble full of damp sand -- refusing to accept, even to notice the gallons of sweet, cool water life constantly offered me. Back in the 1990s, I suppose spending months on a single issue was OK, maybe even necessary. Today, I don't think we have that kind of time.
The Do'Hai Masters have often said it is not them we experience, but the Love and Wisdom of our own Soul's that they reflect back to us. I believe it! After all: "As within, so without." "What we see is who we are." "We attract to us what we have within us."
Sometimes all we need is a little validation, confirmation that we're right on track. Sometimes a choice word or well timed phrase blows open entirely new dimensions of radiance. Sometimes, it takes a more comprehensive dialogue to navigate the maze of mind to reach the treasures of Heart and Soul. But either way, time and again I've witnessed the Do'Hai Masters lovingly guide those we serve into higher and higher levels of realization and empowerment. Greater Peace. Greater Joy. Greater Harmony. Can you sense it? Want more?
Maybe you're feeling the unrest that signals a shift coming on. Maybe you feel the frustration that says it's time to get on with the good stuff of life. Maybe despite determined efforts, some indefinable something seems to thwart you at every turn and quite naturally, you want to understand why and what you can do about it.
Maybe it's time you had a visit with the Do'Hai Masters. Whether in a private, personal consultation (by phone or in person) or in one of the Awakening to Oneness dialogues, be open when you arrive to be expanded when you leave. Time's too precious now to waste on waiting and wondering and hoping things will change. Isn't it time for you? You are the captain of your ship. Take a turn for the better and let's sail into the sunrise of a new dawn together.
Consider the following - the core of Do'Hai teachings.
Do'Hai Affirmation: "I am a manifestation of Source. I was created by Love, from Love, in the image and likeness of Love. With Love I Awaken. Through Love I Prosper. As Love I am Perfect and Whole. It is so. Ash'te Bash'Ka." Ash'te Bash'Ka, pronounced "Osh tay Bosh kah" means "I am all levels of gratitude, Supreme One."
The Principles of Do'HaiThe Do'Hai Masters gave these Principles as the core and foundation of Do'Hai, (Attunement to Source). They encourage the contemplation and application of these Principles to gracefully advance evolution. Further elaboration is in
The Path of Oneness by Jaraan Onai.
Unity * Cooperation * Honesty * Integrity * Balance * Self-Responsibility * Trust/Surrender * Humility * Open-Mindedness * Open-Heartedness * Willingness * Acceptance/Non-Judgment * ProactivityUnity — Recognizing that there is only one Source, one Presence within and through all expressions. Recognizing that you are one with, in fact, you ARE every circumstance in your experience. Unity is the 13th, or ultimate principle within which the other 12 operate. To practice any of the other 12 ultimately leads to the realization of Unity because you must experience Unity on some level to actually practice any of the others.
Cooperation — The act of working with Source to achieve a desired result. Also, and equally important, cooperation is that attitude of knowing that everything you experience cooperates with you to achieve a desired result.
Honesty — Telling yourself the truth. Admitting the fact of your experience as you perceive it in any given moment. Also, allowing the Divine Reality to be known in you and expressed through you in thought, feeling, and action.
Integrity — Integrity is the quality that holds fast to what you know to be true in principle, or in essence, regardless of appearances, influences, or circumstances that would attempt to sway your choices or decisions.
Balance — The reconciliation of two or more equal but opposing sides or forces. Balance may also be defined as being centrally oriented. Often the Do'Hai Masters have encouraged a focus on the Heart and to stay present with the Heart. It is the center point of your Beingness.
Self-Responsibility — Basically means claiming creatorship of every circumstance and thing in your life, whether or not you happen to like them. To be self-responsible is to claim your Divine Power.
Trust/Surrender — Trust/Surrender means accepting the possibility that there is a Benevolent Presence within you and within which you are absolutely safe, loved, endorsed, and cared for, particularly when appearances seem to indicate otherwise.
Humility — It is knowing that there is more to see than what you are seeing, more to know than you are knowing, and that you are more powerful, more capable than you let yourself express. Humility is also accepting that many different things can be true about something or that truth is relative to perspective (a particular point of view).
Open-Mindedness (“Not Knowing”) — In Do’Hai, it means no filtering, censoring, or categorizing (judging) of thoughts that one becomes aware of. A truly open mind constantly holds a state of being embodied by the question, “What is Spirit’s truth here?” or "How does this apply to me?"
Open-Heartedness (Allowing) — Letting yourself feel whatever you feel in the moment. The more open-hearted one is, the more fearless one is. It is allowing you to be whoever and whatever you are in any given moment and allowing all else to do and be likewise. It is a state of being embodied by the words, “I love me (you/it) regardless.” To be truly open-hearted is to be unconditionally loving.
Willingness — A state in which you are open to be or do whatever is called for by the Divine Presence within. In Do’Hai, Willingness means: “the ability to focus or direct attention/energy to a given task or ideal without resistance or attachment to a particular outcome, including having to know what the outcome might be.”
Acceptance/Non-Judgment — What is, is, in the moment. Objectivity. The ability to perceive or interact with something without attachment or previous associations (beliefs); a state of not having to impose any personal (ego-based) definitions upon a person, thing, or experience.
Proactivity (Focus on the ideal) — The fundamental nature of the Universe, which simply does not experience “no.” It is ongoing flow. In Do’Hai, Proactivity is the practice of keeping your eye on the goal. It is keeping your thoughts, feelings, words, and deeds in agreement/alignment with an aspiration/intention.